Happiness can be seen as a choice, and everyone should make choices that somehow leads to happiness. Whether you are a working mom or a housewife, it is hard to manage everything on your own. This might lead to uninvited tension, frustration, and anxiety, which makes it even more difficult to stay happy.> We simply believe that if you choose to be a happy mom, you will stay happy, no matter what circumstances are. You should look at every situation as an opportunity, an opportunity to grow to a better self, to a happier self. There are few simple things moms can do to live happily every day, such as attaining a perfect balance between family life and work commitments.
We need to communicate. It is a social awareness that we have of the world around us, and we believe that to stay happy, we need to communicate with someone. This is not completely true, but to survive, we believe it is always nice to have someone around with whom you can share your sorrows so that you feel lighter and calmer.
You may not realize it, but the selfless deeds are the ones who bring happiness into our lives. Try giving something to someone who cannot do anything in return for you. You will feel uplifted. Giving is receiving in terms of happiness, the more you give more happiness you receive.
If you establish something small or big, the feeling of accomplishment will make you cheerful. If you have a small task you have been thinking of doing for a long time, do it. If there’s something you feel you can never do, at least try it.
When you start believing, you start radiating vibes around you. Every self-help guru says, “you must believe in something, if not in yourself, believe in some force, some god, or you may call it the Universe, but you have got to believe.” Moms face hard times when their children are not well, or something is bothering them. At those moments, this faith helps you. This faith helps you believe that everything will be all right.
When you are thankful for what you already have, you create a different level of happiness. Make a list every day and write a few things you are grateful for. Gratitude is the sanest emotion one can experience. If we are never satisfied - no matter what we get - we are always trying to get more. But, if you stop and look at what is already yours, you will be happier, not just for a few minutes, but forever, because gratitude is a lifelong process.
Being a happy and organized mom is not a myth. Moms have found ways to bring convenience and balance in their family and work life. If you have some more points that we have not included here, please them share with us. We’re all ears.
Ashes
May 21, 2019
Well Said